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My wife is in love with another man from the internet. Right now our life has been difficult because we are plagued with money probs. Both of us have been playing Second Life (an online interactive game) since oct of 06 to escape reality. In Nov she said she was falling in love with a man on the game and they have been intimate “in game”. This nearly tore our marriage apart and sent me into the deepest depression of my life.

By Jan, everything was resolved and life when to back to normal. She has done it again. The new man has been making calls from UK to where we live in US often, she spends more time with him online than I do during the day due to the hours I work. The other day she told me she doesn’t know if our marriage will work anymore because of her other relationship.

Is there hope for us? She is the mother of my 2 children and the love of my life, but she’s been hurting me terribly for six months now. I want counseling but can’t afford it. Help me. be kind.
Please respect her – do not use objectionable language, I love this girl very much, and I do everything i can to please her – candlelit baths, back rubs and our sex is fantastic.

But it seems when I am not there in person, she doesn’t even consider me.
We’ve talked, she ended the relationship and admitted it went too far. She felt trapped in our relationship and wanted a way out – an escape of sorts. I think she realized how much she hurt me and how much history we have.

I am hoping we can work this out and never go through this again.

People who play second life, consider your REAL LIFE partners. I implore you to take a good harness of reality before diving into fantasy.